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    Animal Spirit Antics


    2008 - 03.05

    I’m 52 years old (or young-take your pick).

    I have had animals in my life for my entire life and it always amazes me how they find me or how I find them.

    My parents had a Boxer named Mitzi even before I was born. Once they had me, it could have gone one of two ways. The way it went, I pretty much ended up being Mitzi’s puppy! She was so protective of me. And when the time came for me to start walking-well, that poor dog’s stub of a tail came in real handy! Yep-I sure did-I’d grab it, pull myself up and she would take tiny steps. She knew what I was trying to accomplish and helped me to accomplish that goal. Unfortunately for us, we had farmers in the area at that time who believed in putting rat poison out. There were no leash laws then, so she had the run of several nearby farms. She ended up dying from rat poison. It was devastating for my mom and dad, and also for me.

    But, wait-along came Bo-Bo, a black French poodle. Very sleek and playful, I adored him, he adored me. Unfortunately, we went on vacation to Florida, and when we got home, my folks broke the news to me that he had gotten distemper and died while we were away. Soooooooo,

    My mom talked my dad into getting yet another dog-he figured it would make her happy and give me something to play with! (don’t forget, I was an only child) Hey who said spoiled rotten???? So, Mom started looking and found a white poodle-we were really original with his name-we named him Pierre. What else would you name a French poodle. He was mom’s dog from the very beginning. Following her around, sitting adoringly at her feet. My dad was a plumber in those days and poor Pierre didn’t sit at his feet after he’d been working all day. (not that I’m trying to insinuate a thing, mind you).

    Pierre was a jumper! He’d get excited, he’d jump, he’d get nervous, he’d jump, and if people came who he didn’t know or didn’t like-he jumped! We had a milkman-yes, those were the cave days when milk actually got delivered. And one day, when our wonderful milkman came in to the house to bring us our milk, yep, you guessed it, Pierre jumped and bit that poor man right on his butt!!! And my mom, being a very caring individual, said without thinking, do you want me to get you a Band-Aid??? Once she realized where he’d gotten nipped, she turned a lovely shade of red! So did the milkman!

    Now, Pierre wasn’t a bad dog by nature. He was a lot of fun! But if you were really tall, or had a loud voice, well, that made him nervous.

    On to the next story! We had a farmer who had an extremely loud voice. Usually, Pierre would just sit there and look at him. One day the farmer had stopped in and was very upset about something. He had raised his voice and was throwing his hands and arms around to make a point. Pierre took one look at him, growled low in his throat, looked at my mom as if to say, I’ll protect you! And yep, you guessed it, right in the butt again! Only this time, the farmer was only about 5″6′, not 6’5″, so he got it a little easier.

    Now, neither of these times did the dog break the skin-he was really just being protective of Mom.

    Remember I said that Pierre was mom’s dog-well, it might have something to do with the fact that I was still pretty young and liked to dress Pierre up in doll clothes. Plus, my folks had been nice enough to get me a toy baby carriage. Poor dog, dressed all in pink in the doll carriage giving me the evil eye, and my mother imploring looks of help me!!

    We had Pierre for about 18 years. Toward the end of his life, his back legs finally gave out and we would have to take him out to do his business. But we did it because we felt unconditional love for this dog that had stayed by our side for all those years.

    When I graduated from high school, my best friend and I asked each other what we wanted as gifts. We decided we would get each other something that, even though we had asked for them, no one had gotten us. She wanted a ring-a blue star sapphire. I wanted a cat. My dad did not want a cat! So, Judy and I figured that if she gave me a cat as a gift, he couldn’t say no! And he didn’t. Daddy let me keep my kitty! She was grey and white, fluffy and her name was Kocham-which is not the right spelling, but it’s Polish for Love! She was my kitty-slept with me, loved me, figured out how if you went in the outside fireplace, you could come down a short way in the inside fireplace and wouldn’t have to wait for anyone to let her in. We had her for a number of years too, and she finally passed of old age.

    Now, remember I told you that Pierre had passed away after 18 years-well, I figured we had to get another dog almost right away! Mom and Dad didn’t want to, but being the brat I was (alright, still am), I insisted. We got a miniature Schnauzer named Winston Devon Crowell. Winnie had his own way of doing things. He was the cutest little bundle of grey fur, but very protective of Mom. He was very aristocratic with a name like he had, and wouldn’t play except with Mom! He tolerated Dad, and couldn’t figure out what I was doing there-after all, they really only needed him!!! I finally got married and moved away! My husband and I had decided to move down to Texas for about a year. But after only a couple of months, I was so homesick that Dennis flew me home to see my folks. Mom and Dad met me at the airport, took me home, and when we walked in, Winnie just looked at me, then at Mom and Dad as if to say, ummmm, what is she doing back here. Mom took me and my stuff to my old room, where the dog, very unceremoniously, relieved himself on a piece of my luggage. I guess you can tell what he thought of me.

    Winston had a very good long life, and he too, went to animal heaven.

    My marriage had ended by this time, I moved, along with my children to a mobile home park. It was a nice setting and there were animals there! Pretty soon, every time my Mom came over to visit, all the cats in the area would show up because they saw a sucker, oh, wait, I mean a kind loving animal person when they saw one. One of the cats was a long hair, black and white cat named Rudy! Rudy had figured out that if he stood on his back legs and pounded with his front paws on the metal part of my door, we’d let him in. And it worked. When I finally moved out of the mobile home, we left him there. He had belonged to another family. On one of our return trips to get more stuff out, the owners had cornered one of my kids and said, tell your mom to take Rudy home, he belongs to you now. So, we went and got a cat carrier and took him to his new house.

    Rudy loved it here except for not being able to go outside-I live on Atlantic Ave-no way!!! He was the top kitty and the only kitty for awhile. Then along came Loki, Rudy would make himself as stiff as a board for a week after Loki came. Every time I tried to pick him up, he’d just stiffen himself out. Next came Maggie, our shepherd husky, newfie mix hound! Then we rounded out the mix with Star and Baby Bella.

    Life changed again for me. I had someone move in with me. And he knew someone who had pregnant Momma kitties. Along came Shadow and Tigger. Last but not least in the kitty brigade came Lucky Bear who my kids rescued.

    But wait, then there’s Litha-lab pit bull boxer mix! I live in a zoo!

    The really interesting thing about being a psychic medium is even though some of these animals have passed on, they haven’t left us!

    Rudy will sit in the middle of the living room and I forget he’s Rudy and will go to step over him. Which isn’t an issue, except when we have company and they don’t see him. Maggie will sometimes still try to herd everyone in the same room even though she is in spirit.

    Animals like people, stay within the confines of what was familiar to them in life. We live with our live pets, but also the ones that have passed on. Many times now, we see Litha turn her head a certain way like she is listening to something. We can see Maggie trying to tell her the “right” way to do things.

    Rudy likes to tell his young friend, Shadow, how to do things too. Rudy will many times look at me as if to say-kids!!!! :)

    I could go on forever talking about my 4 legged friends that I hold so dear, both in this life as well as the life beyond.

    Always treat animals with respect and love. And what they will give back to you will be 100 fold!

    Till next time.

    After the Holiday Ramblings


    2008 - 01.20

    Ahhhh, the holidays are over. No more hustle bustle, no more worrying about the tie you got Uncle Fred. You’ve done all the parties, opened all the presents and are now paying the bills.

    It seems like the years go faster and faster every year. We just get the decorations from this holiday put away and then here’s the next holiday!

    And a lot of the time, it seems we forget the meanings and memories of past holidays. We are much too busy and into what has to get done to take a few moments to remember the joys we received from past times.

    My folks and I live on the “old homestead”. There are 3 houses-their house, a rental house they own, and then my house. I can literally walk out of my house and walk a few hundred feet and be at their doorstep.

    The house I currently live in used to belong to my grandparents. Nannie and Gramps-you’ve heard me talk about them before! Gramps was a rather gruff individual except with me. I adored him and he adored me. Nannie just loved everybody! Gramps was 6’2? and Nannie was about 5’1? maybe.

    Every Christmas, Nannie would call my folks to make sure I was up-this was usually at 6am-now who was the excited one? Nannie and Gramps would walk up with all the presents in tow. And would proceed to watch me open my gifts. I was an only child (can we say spoiled?) When we were all done, Nannie would take Gramps back down to their house where she would commence cooking. My Nannie could cook!!!!!!!!! Just around noon time, Mom and Dad and I would walk down, Uncle Paul and Aunt Edie, along with their son Dick! Aunt Clara May and Uncle Earl, my Uncle Pete would all show up.

    We would sit and eat till we were ready to explode! Uncle Paul would, every year, push himself away from the table, pat his ample belly, and say, “that’s the way a man should feel all the time”

    We would continue to open presents down at Nannie’s and would finally have dessert. Then the cleaning up would commence. Now, Nannie would bring out her best china every year. And every year, Aunt Edie would offer to do the dishes. Now, Aunt Edie was a little spitfire! And she would run through those dishes like a cyclone. And, of course, every year, she would drop or crack one or two of the china. So, every year, Nannie would look at Aunt Edie and say, no, no, you’ve done a lot, I can do these later. Aunt Edie would have none of that and would proceed to do her thing! And in later years, when I was first married, I would help do the dishes( no, I didn’t usually break any). But Nannie had a little secret and it took me a couple of years to figure it out. She started to put all the dirty pots and pans in the oven. Where no one would look, and she would do those later. One year, I finally got smart and looked in the oven. That year and for several years after, ALL the dishes would get done at one time!!! Then, one year after the feast, I looked in the oven-nothing there! Hmmmmm, where could she have hid them this year???? Nannie was laughing at me and telling me you’ll never guess. Until she looked out in the garage-yup, Nannie, the little rascal, had put them in her car! I told her after that stunt, she be hard pressed to find another hiding place for them.

    As the years went by, Gramps started to have health problems. So I started doing the holidays at my house. After Gramps had passed away, she took over the holidays again. When I finally had moved into “her” house, she said I could take the holidays back!! Nannie had moved over to the rental house. And it was still a short walk. So, one year, when Nannie had helped to do the dishes-yep-you guessed it, I put the pots and pans in my car!!!! She laughed till she was almost crying.

    So, I have wonderful memories of all those holidays, all the family, and the joy. But, with every passing year, things change. My folks are still here, and my cousin, Dick is still with us. All the other relatives that used to grace this house have passed and now celebrate with us on the spirit side of things.

    Our celebrations are much smaller now, kids and parents. I am proud to say I have a granddog, but no grandkids yet. No hurry guys-get married first and then make me a Grandma!!!!

    But even with all the hustle bustle that goes with the holidays, I always take time to remember all the other celebrations this house has seen. And each year, they bring a smile to my face and an occasional tear to my eye. The memories are all good.

    So, even though the holidays have past, take a few minutes in you’re busy world and remember the past-your loved ones, the good memories and then take one more step and share them with someone.

    Till next time.
    Cindy Lee